The ice cream one really got to me. That is how my mom describes bi sexuality, as just straight one day, gay the next. Or straight while you're dating a girl (or guy), and gay when you are dating the other. The other day she said that all high school studentsВ are bisexual because They have to go through fazes like that to know that they are straight. She refused to listen to my explanations of the different sexualities. And this all is making it very hard to come out as pansexual to her.