First of all Lindsay you are very likable and approachable, I appreciate that. Lately, for about 2 years or more now, I am very able to have sex with sort of. random girls I meet at bars, and other sort of emotionally detached situations, but the one time I tried to have sex with someone i loved, i couldn't get an erection. I think it has something to do with my last relationship, it was very traumatic for me. How can i regain control of my bodies sexual functions, how can i fix this?